Stormy
hey my name is stormy...my first time was with my boyfriend been dating for 15 months today!..
We had a dance at my school which we were attending but little did our parents know we planned to leave early to lose our virginty to each other!..we had been dating for about nine months...he rented a hotel room so we would have some where to go!..he did everything to make me more comfortable....i asked him to play music and have candles to make it special for us!..
.we got there and we were scared to death but after kissin and touching we decided it was time...he put on the condom and he entered me...it hurt SO BAD!!!!......my advice to everyone is to make sure your ready..i dont regret any moment of that night or any other night we do things....it is amazing just make sure you love the person you are with and are willing to face the consequences if the girl were to get pregnant!!...that is a big responsibility.....just BE SAFE!!!!.....trust me..
i thought i was pregnant when we didnt use protection but luckily i wasnt!...it may feel better without a condom but always use one there is always the chance of gettin pregnant no matter what your on!...
Jen
Hi, im Jen.
I lost my virginity when i was 13. Im currently 14. I was dating this guy Isaac for a while and he decided that this might be the right time for both of us. I told him i wasnt ready to do it with him yet and that we dont need sex. But he talked me into and we decided to not plan it and just let it happen.
Only one week later, we were at my house making out on my bed at my house. He started moving his hand up my shirt. I let him knowing that this was it. He moved down to my neck and my shoulder. Then he gently started taking my panties off as if to make it seem ok. I let him. And we had sex that night.
The next day, we acted like our relationship couldnt get any better. Because that right there showed both of us that we could be together forever and that we were truly in love. Wrong. Thats what i THOUGHT. But that EXACT day he told everybody and he spreaded false rumors about me saying i gave him head.
The next day we broke up. And i realized all he wanted was sex. We still talk from time to time, but that changed my life forever.
Linda
My first time was great and confusing all at the same time. Before I tell the story you will need some background information to help you understand why it was so confusing.
I had dated this guy for awhile and we had recently broken up but neither of us were sure that a break up was what we wanted. It just didn't seem to be working out. We were texting and we had a huge fight over text (which is really lame I know but that is all he would do is text never wanted to chat). Well after a few hours it was sinking in that I probably needed to apologize. I sent him a text and asked him if I could come over so we could chat. I went over and we probably chatted for 2 or 3 hours and it seems like we had worked it out. By now it was 1am and I had been up all night getting ready for a test the night before. He went to take his dog out for the night and while he was out there I fell asleep on his couch. When he came back in he just laid by me. The next thing I knew I was waking up to his hands down my pants. I was mortified. I had no clue what to do. Because of the shock of it all I just sat there and pretended to be asleep. He kept on putting his hands in and out touching me and then licking his fingers. I was disgusted. So I started to move around and "woke up" When I woke up he said he needed to use the bathroom. While he was gone I would just walk home.
He came back out and I was on the verge of tears, but I was determined to hold it in. I said, I'm going to go home, it's getting late. He asked me if I wanted him to walk me, I said no that I would be ok. I really just neeeded the space even though I was a little scared to walk home alone. When I got home my roomie was home and had fallen asleep. I just went in the bathroom and bawled. Ok enough of that part.
About 6 months later I stated dating the guy I am with now. It was hard for me to trust a guy again after being taken advantage of like that. We dated and I told him that I wanted to take it very slow because I had a bad last relationship. He was super nice and didn't even kiss me until we'd been dating like 4 months. (He was really patient with me Thank goodness). After about 8 months we started getting pretty serious. I was comfortable with our relationship and I trusted him. We talked about sex and I told him the story about what happened with the last guy I dated and that I wanted to wait until I was married because of it and because of my religious beliefs. He said that he was ok with that although he said he thought it would be hard. We got engaged after we'd dated about a year and a half. But here's the part I know you are all waiting for.
To be honest the day we got married was fine until we left the lunch and headed to the hotel he got. I was scared to death but tried to act causal. I don't think I did a very good job because he told me if I was too nervous he loved me enough that he was willing to wait until I was ready. I didn't want to make him wait. We got to the hotel and dropped off our stuff then went to grab some dinner. After dinner we went to our room. I have never been more uncomfortable and I am never uncomfortable around him.
I went to take a shower to help me relax. I talked myself into sex while I was in the shower and came out in the lingerie that was a bridal shower gift. I told him that I wanted to take it really slow. We just started kissing and he asked if he could take off the top. I reluctantly let him and it was ok. We he finally asked if he could touch me down there I almost died. I started crying and said no, that I wasn't ready. I told him I didn't know how something that was supposed to be used to express love could hurt someone so much. I could tell he was a little mad at the guy that did that too me and so I tried to get the nerves. It took me about 2 hours but I finally let him. After awhile he tried to go in and it hurt so bad. I think the reason it hurt so bad was because I was so scared. Later that night we tried again and it worked but it still hurt.
We fell asleep and in the morning we tried again. This time it was finally good and I was glad that I tried and didn't make him wait. Before we got to the point where we are now I visited with a few counselors to help me get passed the issue I was dealing with. it wasn't fair to my husband to have to carry around my luggage when there shouldn't have been any.
I'm still married to him 3 years later and almost done with school. In the fall I will start my job working with girls who have been raped and sexually assualted. I decided that I went through a hard time in my life and I wanted to help other people get through similar situations. I will not let my experience of how I got through this go without helping as many as I can. I will never be ashamed to talk about sex or sexual abuse with anyone. It needs to come out so the victim can move on.
Cassius
Heyo, name’s Cassius, I lost my virginity when I was fifteen, I am now 16. I don’t regret it, but I should have been more careful.
It sprung up on me, I was completely unprepared because I don’t have many friends who are girls. Yeh I’m goodlooking, but not goodtalking, heh had to add a joke in there. Anyway It started in my maths class and I was keeping my eye on this real fine girl, you know, I would always try to sit near her and try to get her attention. One day she is sitting all alone at a table I maths class and I sit opposite her. Other girls sit on the table and there you have it, the only guy on a table full of girls hehe. We all get talking, not doing much work, and we talk about heaps of random subjects and stuff, it wasn’t till the girl I liked mentioned that I have some nice innocent eyes and dark skin, cos I’m afro American, and they were all white girls. I thanked her and complimented her on her hair or something, you know.
That was the bloody best maths class eva and I really made an impression. At the end of the class one of them invites me to this fair which is on, on Saturday. They said they all goin be dere, so I said aight cool sister lol.
I went to the fair, saw da girls ya know hung out, hangin out wit some fine girls lol the whole fair was great and then the girl I liked comes up to me and said do you want to hang out at my crib. I said would it be a bit crowded with everybody. She jus smiled and said nah you and me. I told my friend who was at the fair aswell about what she said and he was happy for me and said yo gonn ge laid. He had like 5 condoms in his pocket cos he works at the supermarket and just steals them, so he gave me 2 just in case I ripped da first one.
I arrive at her place, while goin to her place I didn’t actually think anything was going to happen, cos I had never done it before, also I thought she was jus kidding around. She starts showing me all her things, such as playstation cds radios, all anticipation up to the point where she gets to her room. She grabs a stuffed toy and starts hugging it, telling me it was her second fav toy, I ask ‘so wats yo first?’ as if I didn’t know. She grabs and we start kissing fo like ages, she was like drunk, I was completely sober, cos I heard it increase da pleasure, I didn’t drink that much as she thought I did.
I wasn’t real sure how to do it, but I just went slow and gentle u know, I think it hurt her at first but I could see she was enjoying it. It was ok for me, but it was actually better to see her feeling so good instead of only me. She said her parents were gone for the weekend and she wanted me to stay the night, so I did. When I woke up I thought ‘ did that actually happen?’ when she was lying next to me I knew it did. I didn’t tell anyone only my friend who gave me the condom, I told him not to tell anyone, but the next day everyone knew, I was so pissed off and even worse she thought I was telling every one, I assured her I wasn’t.
We are still together, and I would die for her, but my advice is you really get to know the girl before you have sex.
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